Freemasonry is not for everyone, and that is as it should be. A few honest questions will tell you whether the Craft is likely to be a good fit for the man you are.
Deciding whether to join any fraternity deserves genuine thought. Freemasonry will reward the right man richly, but it is not for everyone. Here are a few honest questions to help you weigh it up.
Do you want to become a better man?
This is the whole purpose of the Craft. If the idea of working, deliberately and with others, at your own character appeals to you, you are already thinking like a Mason. If you are looking only for a social club or a business network, you will likely be disappointed.
Do you value friendship and belonging?
Freemasonry offers a brotherhood that crosses ages, backgrounds and generations. Men who thrive in the Craft are those who genuinely enjoy the company of others and are willing to give friendship as well as receive it.
Are you willing to give your time?
Freemasonry is not demanding, but it is not passive either. It asks for your presence at meetings, a little effort to learn, and a willingness to lend a hand. Members who put a little in find they get a great deal out.
Do you believe in something greater than yourself?
A belief in a Supreme Being is fundamental to the Craft, though the particular faith is entirely your own. If that belief is part of who you are, one of the essential conditions is already met.
“The Craft does not ask you to be perfect — only to be willing to improve.”
If your answers point toward yes, the best next step is simply to talk with us. There is no commitment in a conversation, and every question is welcome.

Considering the Craft?
If Freemasonry speaks to you, the next step is simply a conversation. Lodge St Andrew at Bexley No. 7 would be glad to answer your questions — there is no obligation, only a warm welcome.


